friendship

I learned a lot about the importance of girlfriends when my dad passed away (today is his birthday by the way - happy birthday Dad!) My mom had an amazing support system there for her after he was gone. I saw another friend's mom not have that same support and right then and there I promised myself I would always try my best to hang on to my True Friends by making an effort to spend time with them, help whenever possible, etc.

Recently I had a friend dump me and I'm not exactly sure why. Did I give the wrong advice or just too much advice? I was just trying to help. I don't care if you take my advice as long as you're happy. Did I wear her out by leaning on her too much? I just needed a friend. Did I buy the wrong kind of wine or tip poorly when I bought her dinner? The invoice is in the mail.

Truth is, it doesn't really matter now. I know I tried my best to be a good friend. And a True Friend recently told me that it doesn't matter if I wore her out with my own troubles or gave too much advice because that's what True Friends do.

I am thankful that I still have a great group of girlfriends. I hope that we can hang on to each other through all the good times and crappy times and come out better and stronger for all that we've been through together.